I remember how cold the old cemetery in Quitman, Mississippi felt as my eyes scanned the small, stone headstone.
Emma Jean – Born to be in heaven
The dates were one and the same.
This baby girl’s life began and ended in the same moment.
But her brief existence left a beautiful mark on the hearts of her family.
This wasn’t the last time tiny dates and headstones would stamp the loss of a baby on my heart.
Several years later I served as a hospice chaplain in Idaho Falls. There was a sacred place in the local cemetery with a stone angel overlooking the graves of miscarried and still birth babies.
Each headstone bore the name given to them by their grieving parents, along with a heartfelt message and sometimes even small toys or trinkets left as offerings.
It breaks my heart that God’s precious and special children have their little lives cut so short, but it also filled me with hope that they’re resting peacefully in His arms.
It doesn’t wrap a grieving mother’s heart in comfort or a bereaved father’s mind in understanding, but it’s a small light to hold onto in the midst of such devastating loss.
And for those who may be struggling with their own grief and pain, know that you are not alone.
Your baby is loved and cherished, even if their physical bodies were only here for a small moment.
21 Beautiful Poems & Quotes To Honor Stillborn Babies
I hope these miscarriage poems and quotes will bring a sense of comfort and understanding to your heart as you grieve the loss of your child.
These sweet poems may not take away the pain, but they serve as a reminder that your baby’s life was precious and will never be forgotten.
For Just A Little While
by Micah Klug
Mommy’s heart is breaking
there’s so much we didn’t do.
Like bike riding, car finding, and
throwing a ball or two.
Maybe you’d like rainbows, or splashing in the rain,
perhaps you’re like your father, who
loves visiting memory lane.
Your tiny fingers were kissed
one, two, and three times.
Your brothers and sisters sang to you
and shared some silly rhymes.
Now we let Jesus’ light shine on
your precious face.
He’s called you home to heaven, where
we’ll see you again, thanks to his grace.
You’re now our guardian angel, since we
get to share you with heaven.
We’ll do everything we can to stay close to Jesus Christ,
and learn what it is he needs from this lesson.
Rest in peace my child, for one day you’ll be ours.
On resurrection morn’ there will no longer be
these terrible scars.
Our tears will turn to joy, our pain will be made right.
And you, my precious baby, will be welcomed back in white.
These Are My Footprints
Author Unknown
These are my footprints, so perfect and so small.
These tiny footprints, never touched the ground at all.
Not one tiny footprint, for now I have my wings.
These tiny footprints were meant for other things.
You will hear my tiny footprints, in the patter of the rain.
Gentle drops like angels tears, of joy and not from pain.
You will see my tiny footprints, in each butterflies’ lazy dance.
I’ll let you know I’m with you, if you give me just a chance.
You will see my tiny footprints, in the rustle of the leaves.
I will whisper names into the wind, and call each one that grieves.
Most of all, these tiny footprints, are found in mummy’s heart,
’cause even though I’m gone now, we’ll never truly part.
Little Snowdrop
Author Unknown
The world may never notice
If a Snowdrop doesn’t bloom,
Or even pause to wonder
If the petals fall too soon.
But every life that ever forms,
Or ever comes to be,
Touches the world in some small way
For all eternity.
The little one we long for
Was swiftly here and gone.
But the love that was then planted
Is a light that still shines on.
And though our arms are empty,
Our hearts know what to do.
Every beating of our hearts
Says that we love you.
My Little Angel
by Rhonda
I felt your presence there inside of me,
Nestled soft and warm;
Sweet scent of baby’s breath,
Precious words left unadorned.
I saw your tiny heartbeat,
Then I knew that you were fine;
A perfect baby we created,
One that would be mine.
Then that tragic day it came
There was nothing I could do,
Only wait and hope
For the precious life of you.
Yes in the beginning
Your daddy was afraid;
Only he would love you unconditional
And never run away.
He loved you more this I do know,
As he cried for you that day,
When the doctor said that you were gone,
Daddy wanted you to stay.
He would have held you close to him,
And see your perfect form,
A gift of daddy’s love,
Would have kept you safe and warm.
Only now you are an angel over me
Beautiful and bare,
My heart would hurt if you cried for me
And mommy was not there.
Still we are together in my heart and memories,
You are still a part of my memory.
Rest gentle now ‘sweet baby’ there is no pain
You are never alone,
I know you are with the guiding angels
In you peaceful home.
I will come with you someday
Only now is not my time,
Then we will be together again
Again you will be mine.
Too Soon
Mary Yarnall
This was a life that had hardly begun
No time to find your place in the Sun
No time to do all you could have done
But we loved you enough for a lifetime
No time to enjoy the world and its wealth
No time to take life down off the shelf
No time to sing the songs of yourself
Though you had enough love for a lifetime
Those who live long endure sadness and tears
But you’ll never suffer the sorrowing years
No betrayal, no anger, no hatred, no fears
Just love – Only love – In your lifetime.
“Little Star”
from Romeo and Juliet
by William Shakespeare
When he shall die,
Take him and cut him out in little stars,
And he will make the face of heaven so fine
That all the world will be in love with night
And pay no worship to the garish sun.
Heaven’s Wings
by Micah Klug
Precious little wings came for you too soon,
because a loving Father called you home
and bid you come with Him.
Your tiny wings are heavenward and
the morning flowers just sigh.
For a precious baby has gone away
so soon to touch the sky.
An Angel Never Dies
Author Unknown
Don’t let them say I wasn’t born,
That something stopped my heart
I felt each tender squeeze you gave,
I’ve loved you from the start.
Although my body you can’t hold,
It doesn’t mean I’m gone,
This world was worthy, not of me,
God chose that I move on.
I know the pain that drowns your soul,
What you are forced to face.
You have my word, I’ll fill your arms,
Someday we will embrace.
You’ll hear that it was “meant to be,
God doesn’t make mistakes,”
But that won’t soften your worst blow,
Or make your heart not ache.
I’m watching over all you do,
Another child you’ll bear,
Believe me when I say to you,
That I am always there.
There will come a time, I promise you,
When you will hold my hand,
Stroke my face and kiss my lips,
And then you’ll understand.
Although I’ve never breathed your air,
Or gazed into your eyes
That doesn’t mean I never “was”
An angel never dies.
A butterfly lights beside us
Author Unknown
A butterfly lights beside us like a sunbeam, and for a
brief moment its glory and beauty belong to our world:
but then it flies again. And though we wish it could
have stayed, we feel so lucky to have seen it.
I’ll Be There
Author Unknown
Daddy, please don’t look so sad,
Mama please don’t cry.
Cause I am in the arms of Jesus
And He sings me lullabies.
Please, try not to question God,
Don’t think He is unkind.
Don’t think He sent me to you,
And then He changed his mind.
You see, I am a special child,
And I’m needed up above.
I’m the special gift you gave Him,
The product of your love.
I’ll always be there with you
And watch the sky at night.
Find the brightest star that’s gleaming,
That’s my halo’s brilliant light.
You’ll see me in the morning frost,
That mists your window pane.
That’s me in the summer showers,
I’ll be dancing in the rain.
When you feel a little breeze,
From a gentle wind that blows.
That’s me I’ll be there,
Planting a kiss on your nose.
When you see a child playing,
And your heart feels a little tug.
That’s me I’ll be there,
Giving your heart a hug.
So daddy, please don’t look so sad,
Mama don’t you cry.
I’m in the arms of Jesus,
And He sings me lullabies
From your little angel.
Smallest Angel
Author Unknown
Listen…can you hear it?
A heavenly choir sings.
Another little angel
Just got her set of wings.
There’s joy and there is shouting
As she steps through heaven’s gate.
They all lined up to greet her.
All the angels celebrate.
Her eyes are shining brightly
And a smile lights her face,
As she receives her halo
And takes her special place.
She’s the smallest little angel
With the biggest kind of love.
She’s wiser than an owl
And more peaceful than a dove.
And though there’s joy in heaven,
There is sorrow down below.
broken hearts are crying
Since they had to let her go.
So she watches them from heaven
But she knows the time will come,
They will join their precious daughter
When their work on earth is done.
Tiny Angel
Author Unknown
Tiny Angel rest your wings
Sit with me for awhile.
How I long to hold your hand,
And see your tender smile.
Tiny Angel, look at me,
I want this image clear…
That I will forget your precious face
Is my biggest fear.
Tiny Angel can you tell me,
Why you have gone away?
You weren’t here for very long…
Why is it, you couldn’t stay?
Tiny Angel shook his head,
“These things I do not know…
But I do know that you love me,
And that I love you so.
God Needed You More
by Nicole Lothridge
God Needed You More
I wanted you so bad,
God needed you more.
I tried everything
To keep you here,
God needed you more.
I cried and almost died,
The day you came,
God needed YOU more.
It breaks my heart
I can no longer hold you
God needed you more.
We will meet again, someday,
But right now, God needs you more.
I will continue to love you,
I will grieve your loss,
I will always TRY to remember…
God needed you more.
The Cord
Author Unknown
We are connected, my child and I,
by an invisible cord not seen by the eye.
It’s not like the cord that connects us at birth
this cord can’t be seen by any on earth.
This cord does it’s work right from the start
it binds us together attached to my heart
I know that it’s there though no one can see
the invisible cord from my child to me.
The strength of this cord it’s hard to describe
it can’t be destroyed it can’t be denied.
It’s stronger than any cord man could create
it withstands the test, can hold any weight
And though you are gone, though you’re not here with me
the cord is still there but no one can see
It pulls at my heart, I am bruised…I am sore
but this cord is my lifeline as never before.
I’m thankful that my heart connects us this way
a mother and child, death can’t take it away!
Fingerprints
by Tom Krause
Your fingerprints are on my heart.
Fingerprints that teach me about caring.
Fingerprints that teach me about love.
Fingerprints that teach me about courage.
Fingerprints that teach me about hope.
Fingerprints that bring me closer to my loved ones.
Fingerprints that bring me closer to myself.
In the time I cared for you my whole life changed —
never to be the same again
All this from tiny fingerprints that touch my heart.
You will live in my heart forever – never to be forgotten.
I will always love you.
You are my child.
Angel Of My Tears
Author Unknown
How do you love a person
Who never got to be?
Or try to envision a face
You never got to see?
How do you mourn the death of one
Who never got to live?
When there’s nothing to feel good about
And nothing to forgive?
I love you, my little baby,
My companion of the night.
Wandering through my lonely hours,
Beautiful and bright.
What does it mean to die before
You ever were born?
To live the lovely night of life
And never see the dawn?
Ah! My little baby,
You lived like anyone!
Life’s a burst of joy and pain
And then, like yours, it’s done.
I love you, my little baby,
Just as if you’d lived for years.
No more, no less, I think of you,
The angel of my tears.
From ‘The Noble Nature’
by Ben Jonson
A lily of a day
is fairer in May,
although it fall and die that night-
It was the plant and flower of Light.
In small proportions we just beauties see:
and in short measures life may perfect be.
Fly
by Jean-Jacques Goldman and Phil Galdston.
‘Fly’ is sung and written by Celine Dion. Her inspiration for this popular hit is her own challenging journey in getting pregnant and losing one of her babies in a miscarriage.
Fly, fly little wing
Fly beyond imagining
The softest cloud, the whitest dove
Upon the wind of heaven’s love
Past the planets and the stars
Leave this lonely world of ours
Escape the sorrow and the pain
And fly again
Fly, fly precious one
Your endless journey has begun
Take your gentle happiness
Far too beautiful for this
Cross over to the other shore
There is peace forevermore
But hold this memory bittersweet
Until we meet
Fly, fly do not fear
Don’t waste a breath, don’t shed a tear
Your heart is pure, your soul is free
Be on your way, don’t wait for me
Above the universe you’ll climb
On beyond the hands of time
The moon will rise, the sun will set
But I won’t forget
Fly, fly little wing
Fly where only angels sing
Fly away, the time is right
Go now, find the light
Our Baby
by Teri M. Stuckmann
An empty space where life once stirred
My eyes were not yet seeing
Where once my heartbeat shared a tone
With a small and fragile being
So scarcely formed yet still a life
A dream, a hope, a promise
Our plans were changed to now include
This new life thrust upon us
Then just as quickly as it came
Our dreams were gone away
The deepest pain I’ve ever felt
Our baby died today
With footprints left upon our hearts
She gently took her leave
We’re left with nothing but regret
And only time to grieve
There was no service to be held
No mourning time required
No songs of longing and despair
No words to be inspired
We’re simply told to bare the pain
“It’s nature’s way” they say
I can’t forget our baby moved
Inside me yesterday
And with each word of sorrow
My teardrops fall like rain
The anger and resentment
Are mixed with guilt and pain
I look to heaven for a sign
To help search out a course
Where love can teach acceptance
And eliminate remorse
My body will accept the truth
That now our baby’s gone
But in our hearts our Angel
Everlastingly lives on!
Precious Little One
Author Unknown
I’m just a precious little one who
Didn’t make it there.
I went straight to be with Jesus,
But I’m waiting for you here.
Many dwelling here where I live
Waited years to enter in.
Struggled through a world of sorrow,
A world marred with pain and sin.
Thank you for the life you gave me,
It was brief but don’t complain.
I have all Heaven’s Glory,
Suffered none of earth’s great pain.
Thank you for the name you gave me.
I’d have loved to bring it fame.
But if I’d lingered in earth’s shadows,
I would have suffered just the same.
So sweet family – don’t you sorrow.
Wipe those tears and chase the gloom.
I went straight to Jesus’ arms
From my loving Mother’s womb.
Little Hands
by Lyndsey
Lyndsey’s a mother who wrote this poem after her daughter, Evalyn was stillborn on November 16, 2016. She writes on After Evalyn to help other bereaved parents with the grief of losing a child.
Your little hands so soft and still, I held them in my own,
Whilst wishing we had more than just a handprint coming home.
I studied every nail and line and every inch of you,
And cried for all the things your little hands would never do.
I’d never get to clean your hands, there’d be no messy play,
l’d never see your fingers point to things you’d try to say.
I’d never hear the sound they’d make whilst splashing in the bath,
Or how they’d cover up your lips whilst trying not to laugh.
I wish so much I could have taught you how to write your name,
Or watched your little hands outstretched to play a catching game.
Your little hands would never feel a scrape or gain a scar,
Nor would they play an instrument or learn to drive a car.
Your little hands, my little hands, forever left unchanging,
No exploring, falling, climbing, drawing and no ageing,
My only wish for you and I is that we had more time,
’Cause I could have spent forever with your little hands in mine.
Final Thoughts For A Grieving Parent
If you know of another mother or family who may be suffering the loss of a stillborn baby, please share these stillbirth poems and quotes with them as well.
No one needs to suffer alone. Sometimes it’s hard to find the right words to mend a broken heart.
And it’s moments like these we need to support each other the most.
Remember, your sweet angel may have left this world too soon, but they’ll always hold a special place in your heart and in heaven above.
You’re in my prayers, friend.
Micah Klug is a wife, homeschooling mother to five children, and author. She teaches time-tested solutions to help parents remember what matters most in life, including strengthening their home, faith, and family relationships. To learn how a child who grew up in an authoritarian home is now creating an environment of peace and joy in her own home visit this page. If you want to contact Micah, send her an email here or email [email protected].