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101 Fun Long Distance Relationship Questions To Ask Your Partner


If you’re in a long distance relationship, you know that it can be tough to keep the spark alive. But don’t worry, we’ve got you covered! We’ve put together a list of 101 fun long distance relationship questions to ask your partner. These questions will help keep the conversation flowing, and will help you learn more about each other. So grab your partner and get started!

101 Fun Long Distance Relationship Questions To Ask Your Partner

Looking for something to help spice up your long distance relationship?

If you’re looking for ways to make your long distance relationship work, we’ve got the perfect solution for you.

Our fun long distance relationship questions will help keep the spark alive and bring you closer together no matter where in the world you are.

We all know that communication is key in any relationship, so we’ve made it easy for you to connect with your significant other.

You can start asking your significant other some of these fun long distance relationship questions and build up to the deep questions for your significant other.

Long distance relationship questions for couples

Long Distance Relationship Questions For Him

If you could know more about me, what would you want to know?

What do you think was the best year of my life so far?

When we first met, we were both ___ years old. Now we are ____ years old and I feel like our relationship is ___ than it’s ever been. What do you think?

Describe yourself as a child in three words.

Where did we meet?

If I could choose, what age would you want to be?

What are your hobbies?

Why did you pick me to be your significant other?

When did you know there was something between us that couldn’t be explained by coincidence or fate?

What does being with me mean to you?

Describe the absolute perfect day together.

How did you know that I was the one for you?

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What’s your favorite food?

Did we have any nicknames when we were younger?

Who is my best friend and why?

What do I look like when I’m in a fight with someone else and winning?

If you could go anywhere in the world, where would you go?

What’s one thing that I love doing but you hate?

What do you think I should work on or improve?

Long Distance Relationship Deep Questions

One of the reasons why I love these questions so much is because they let your sweetheart know how much you miss him.

You don’t have to think, “Should I tell him I miss him?”

Instead, you can ask and answer these questions and strengthen your relationship together.

If we were to have a child, what gender and other qualities would they have?

When did you first fall in love with me?

If you could have done anything, what would you want to do?

What was the best day of our lives together so far?

How can I make our long distance relationship work better for us?

What is the greatest challenge that we’re facing right now?

What do you need to see me accomplish this year for us to feel like we’re making progress in our relationship?

When did you first realize that I was the one for you?

What’s your biggest fear about being in a long distance relationship with me?

If we were going to get married, what would you want our wedding to be like?

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What’s your favorite memory of us so far?

What was the day that we first told each other ‘I love you’?

Who is my best friend and why?

Which parent do I take after?

What would you say is the biggest difference between us and what makes it work?

What do you wish I could improve on?

What’s your best childhood memory?

Who is the first person you think of when something good happens to you?

If we had one day left together, how would you want to spend it?

Why did we work out as a long distance couple and what will make us succeed in the future?

Truth Questions For Long Distance Relationships

What’s your favorite memory of our relationship so far?

What is my best personality trait and why?

Describe yourself in three words.

Where did we go on our first date?

If you could change one thing about me, what would it be and why?

How long do you think we’ve had a long distance relationship?

What is the most memorable gift I ever gave to you?

If we were going to get married, where would be your ideal location for our wedding?

Which of my friends do you like the most and why?

Describe me in three words.

How often do you think about me when we’re not together?

What’s your best memory of us so far?

What do you love most about our relationship?

If you could give me anything, what would it be?

Do you remember the day I told you that I loved you for the first time and how did I tell you?

What is my most annoying habit?

Who was your first best friend when you were a kid?

Where did we go on our first vacation together?

When is the last time we said ‘I love you’ and what were we doing at the time?

What’s your favorite thing about me?

Long Distance Relationship Questions For Her

How do you think our lives will be different in five years from now? 10 years?

Is there anything I never do or say that makes you feel loved?

If you could dress up as a character from a book, TV show, or movie, who would you dress up as?

What is your favorite season and why?

What’s the best gift I ever gave you?

Which of my friends do you dislike the most and why?

When was a time that I showed that I really cared about you and what did I do to show this?

What’s your favorite thing about me?

Describe me in one word.

What is my most annoying habit?

What do you love most about our relationship?

Where did we go on our first vacation together?

Are you happy with our current level of emotional intimacy? If not, what can we do to improve?

What is one thing on your bucket list this year?

What’s the best name for a pet?

If you could only eat one food the rest of your life, what food would that be?

What is something that I never did, but you wish I would have?

Where did we go on our first date?

Are you happy with our current level of physical intimacy? If not, what can we do to improve it?

What do you love most about me and why?

Long Distance Relationship Questions On The Phone

What’s one thing that you know about me that I don’t think I know about myself?

If you had to give up one of your five senses, which would it be and why?

Who is your favorite author? Why are they your favorite?

Does your family support our relationship?

Do you feel we’ve grown closer together as a couple since starting our long distance relationship?

What do you love most about me?

If we could have any famous singer perform our first dance, who should it be?

Do you feel loved?

What are some of the things you hate about our long distance relationship (besides the distance, of course!)

If you had one million dollars, what would you do with the money?

What is the dumbest way you’ve been hurt?

What is your favorite food?

If I could give you anything in the world, what would it be?

Is there anything about yourself that you wish was different? What would it be and why?

If you could dress up as a character from a book, TV show, or movie, who would you dress up as?

Would you rather be locked inside a library with unlimited access to books or a movie theater with unlimited access to movies?

What are the top three qualities you look for in a partner?

How do you feel when we go an extended period without seeing each other?

What’s one thing that I do that makes me seem smarter?

Do you have any tattoos or piercings? If so, how many?

Who are three of your closest friends and what do they mean to you?

What is your favorite book and why?

How Do You Keep A Long Distance Conversation Interesting?

There are different things you can do to keep a long distance conversation interesting.

One thing you can do is spend time on a video call using Skype, Zoom, or your preferred video conferencing program.

By meeting face to face you’re engaging, making eye contact, and building a connection together.

You could also try setting a daily time to talk, and have a notebook by your side with things you want to talk about.

If you run out of ideas on what to say, you can always ask some of the fun questions for couples on this list!

Are Doubts In Long Distance Relationships Normal?

Long distance relationships are hard.

They require trust and patience from both parties involved.

It takes a lot of work and effort to make long distance relationships last.

But, if you trust your partner and you both take the time to maintain your relationship, it will definitely pay off.

When doubts begin to arise in your relationship, don’t give up.

If you take the right steps together as a team, you will be able to get through the hard times and find success.

Doubts in long distance relationships are normal, but that doesn’t mean that your relationship isn’t worth it.

Don’t let any pessimism or self-doubt stop you from seeing what your relationship is capable of. If you take the time to prioritize each other and build trust, your relationship can withstand any doubt.

I admire the couples who can thrive on distance and still strengthen their relationship with each other.

There’s so much we can all learn by observing these couples and see what’s working well for them.

When my husband and I were engaged we maintained a long distance relationship for over 6 months.

And yes, doubts in long distance relationships are normal because the emotional distance of each significant other needs attention and nurturing.

If a couple is emotionally struggling in their relationship, then the relationship is going to suffer.

This is why it’s so important to maintain communication and trust with each other.

As you build up your relationship the distance gets easier and you’ll be a stronger couple because of this time apart.

Here’s A Long Distance Relationship Prayer For You

Dear Heavenly Father,

Please bless the couple who are apart from each other at this time.

Please help them to communicate clearly with each other, and provide a level of strength, trust, and endurance in their relationship that only you can give.

We ask you to bring peace and understanding to this couple, and may their love for each other continue to grow stronger.

Please bless this long distance relationship today, God.

We ask this in your son’s name.


7 Long Distance Relationship Bible Verses

Songs of Solomon 5:2, "I sleep, but my heart waketh: it is the voice of my beloved that knocketh, saying, Open to me...my love, my dove...for my head is filled with dew, and my locks with the drops of the night."

Songs of Solomon 4:1, “Behold, thou art fair, my love; behold, thou art fair; thou hast doves’ eyes within thy locks.”

Songs of Solomon 8:3, "His left hand should be under my head, and his right hand should embrace me."

Song of Solomon 6:3, “I am my beloved’s and my beloved is mine.”

Psalm 145:20, "The Lord preserveth all them that love him."

John 15:9, “As the Father hath loved me, so have I loved you: continue ye in my love.”

John 15:11 "These things have I spoken unto you, that my joy might remain in you, and that your joy might be full."

10 Long Distance Relationship Texts To Send Your Significant Other

“I knew the moment I met you, there was something special about you. You turned my world upside down and I cant imagine myself without you.”

“I’m thinking about you right now. Just know that no matter what happens I will always be here for you.”

“You are the best decision I have ever made and I’m so happy we found each other.”

“As we spend time apart, I just want you to know how much I miss you. It’s difficult for me too. The distance is tough but as long as we keep our love alive, everything will work itself out.”

“I promise whatever is going on, we can get through it. I cannot imagine you not being in my life and I won’t let this distance come between us.”

“No matter where you are or what is going on, know that I will always have faith in us. I am yours forever.”

“I know we might be facing a long distance relationship but no matter what, I will always love you and be here for you.”

“During our time apart, I want you to know how much I appreciate you and love you.”

“I feel like we were meant to be because I can’t imagine me living my life without you.”

“Even though we are miles apart, we will always be together.”

You can also send him a cute or spicy text message from this list.

3 Secrets For Improving Your Long Distance Relationship

1. Always Communicate

Always be communicating with your partner via phone calls and text messages.

Something that has worked amazingly well for my husband and I are to text throughout the day, have a family call in the evening via FaceTime or Skype, and then have a “date-night” call in the evening.

For text messages throughout the day, we talk about our day, what’s working great and crazy things the kids are doing.

We send each other our successes and struggles so we know how we can support each other.

During our family call via FaceTime or Skype, the children are able to see their Dad and we have a family prayer together.

This has been so important, especially where our children are really young. They know that Dad is far away and that he loves them and is still part of our family.

And having the date-night call in the evening is a time for us to have more of an adult conversation about our feelings and expressing our love for each other (without being body-slammed by our two-year-old or having a baby screaming in our ears).

2. Send Pictures

Text pictures of yourself smiling and happy. This isn’t to say to your partner, “look how much fun I’m having without you!”

Quite the opposite.

Sending pictures of yourself or the kids playing at the park, watching a movie at home, or just living your daily life shows your partner that life is still moving forward.

And as life moves forward and you allow him to be part of the daily, mundane things, he will know how to jump back into his role at home because he won’t be wondering what everyone’s been doing and how he fits in.

You’re still including him in the day-to-day activities and making him feel like he’s with you, even though he’s currently not.

3. Keep Your Partner On Your Mind

Always be thinking of your partner constantly in your mind and in the actions you do.

Just because he’s not physically present with you, doesn’t make your relationship not meaningful.

The value and meaning in a relationship come from both people putting forward an effort to make the situation work as best as possible.

So act the way you would if he were standing right next to you.

Hold onto your relationship with each other tightly and make it an utmost priority. And above all, never let anything, or anyone, stand between you two.

As you take the time to communicate with your partner throughout the day, send each other pictures by letting each other into the day-to-day parts of life, and always remembering what your relationship means to both of you, you’ll begin to improve your long distance relationship and ultimately strengthen your love together.


2 thoughts on “101 Fun Long Distance Relationship Questions To Ask Your Partner”

  1. Maris

    I do enjoy sending and receiving texts with my husband through the day while he is away working.

    Our communication is improved if I tell him right when a subject is on my mind instead of hitting him with it when he walks in the door. He seems to process the idea and often has a response for me later, even if I don’t bring it up.

    1. I’m so glad you found a communicating strategy that works great for you and your husband’s relationship.

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